May 29, 2006
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hooray.
The barbecue was actually a lot of fun. We were there from 3:00 until 10:00 and had a good time. Especially because I got the secret to the famous potatoes!! Hooray! Both “friends” were very friendly and nice. I don’t know what is going on, and don’t really care… I’ll just continue on my own little path. {see how you have grown grasshopper…..}
I received grades for one of my classes 73 of 75 possible points. That’s decent, I can live with that, especially since each assignment is truly work for me this semester.
Today, my family is going in different directions.
Silver_fangz is going to the beach with best friend and fellow trouble maker. Squirt is going to the Sports park (putt-putt golf, water boats, extreme trampoline and rock climbing wall) with friends. And hubby and I are thinking about catching a matinee — all by our little ole twosome. I know it sounds horrible, but I am really looking forward to some alone time with Hubby while the girls are gone this summer. Then I am really looking forward to some alone time — all by myself, when I go to NM this summer.
I have always taken some time to myself. I’ve taken vacations to visit friends, time out by myself or with friends and time with just my hubby. I know some people say “I could never leave my kids for _____ long”. Well you know what? My kids are always better off for it when I get back! I am rejuvenated. I am energized and I am me again. After awhile, it’s easy to lose yourself in your daily life. I become “mom” or Mrs. C, or SMSGT Hubby’s wife, or the student, or teacher. My individuality gets muddled in the midst of all these roles…. so I take some time, hang out with some friends, do stuff I want to do and come back — ME…. ready to take on all my roles again.
Question for the day:
Me time? or all Family Time?
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Comments (12)
that was a cool survay.. I am 80% happy
have a great night!! HUGS
I think we all need “me” time but family time is nice, too… at least while the kid’s want to be involved. You didn’t mention “couple” time…
I want to thank you for your comments and prayers. I feel I did the right thing but it’s hard to believe we really got no where.
Little sis and I plan on talking to our sister. She’ll do what she all ways does and write it off. In fact in her mind it’s over and never happened. We just have to find the right time, place and words. I wish I knew what to say and do.
Anyway…thanks.
If I don’t get some “me time” now and then, my whole family suffers for it. When my first baby was about a year old, and I was diagnosed with post-partum depression, my very wise dr. wrote me a prescription to give to DH. It said, “Time to self: take one hour per day, plus one extended session per week.” I haven’t followed it to the letter, but I have come close, and it keeps us all relatively sane.
we all need ME time….i’m glad you make sure to take it :goodjob:
glad to hear that ya had a great time at party! I agree you do need some me time at times.. Hubby does that for me on the weekends he lets me sleep in late and takes cares of the kids for me and then he will cook a dinner too so that gives me a break as well. When i need a break we usally got out together for a night that helps us both out… Have a great day
I think it is great you have time together and time for your self. I think it is a haeathy thing to do. I do the same thing. I figure even God rested, hehe.
Absolutely, positively, 100% – “Me-Time” is essential for any individual and for the healthy relationship of a couple. You are your own special entity that God made, and there are going to be times that being one with who God made you is necessary. Exploring interests and hobbies develop your sense of who you are meant to be and help you focus your energy. It gives you the chance to breakaway long enough to be “just you” so that when you get back to your busy life you are more in-tune and ready for what it brings you. My husband and I probably take this a little too far, especially according to my parents who are truly one and cannot hardly separate – but we each have some very defined interests that are our own (he is an AVID golfer and video gamer, I am a scrapbooker and free-writer…and crazy fan…and…okay, so I have a lot…). We also have a lot of things we share together, like movies, music, drum corps, our pets, working on the house, reading, etc. We seem to enjoy that time together when we’ve had a bit on our own. I recommend it, totally!!
It’s nice to take time for yourself. I did that for about 5 days last year and went across country, Wish I could do it again. It’s something that we all should do from time to time and not feel guilty about it. Simply because we have a home, children and a husband does not mean we should lose our individulality. Go for it. Take the time and enjoy! :wave:
Glad the BBQ was fun. We went to one and had a really good time. No drama. That was nice. I hope your movie was a wonderful date for you guys. As for the question. Gosh I like me time and family time. I use the me time during the day when they are at work and school and go to the gym. Not exciting me time but me time none the less. I am able to turn on my music, jump on the treadmill and sweat away some worries. Family time we love to play X box, go to movies, play board games and just sit on the patio and talk.
Can I call it “Get the hell out of the house far, far away from THEM time”???
Cause thats what I do..
far away from my three headaches.. :p
Can I call it “Get the hell out of the house far, far away from THEM time”???
Cause thats what I do..
far away from my three headaches.. :p
I’m looking forward to my vacation in June to see my high school gf in Minnesota. My hubby and child have to stay home! Neener, neener!